Just after mamak-ing with the CF members. Today's topic was....
BGR!!!
And it was really fruitful. Some questions that I've always kept it to myself were revealed today and I got some answers. Seriously. Alot of openings today. I mean, Dr. Wong shared alot about his love life and his experiences la. I can't reveal so much here although I really do wanna tell every1!! But some matters are better left unrevealed rite? Hehehehe...
1 question : Do you agree that guys should make the 1st move?
Do drop in ur opinions at the comments ya? Hehehe.. Just a simple survey. So far, the majority of the answer is heading towards : YES!!
And that answer comes from both guys and girls. Do drop ur comments k? Hehe.
I am truly blessed today. Cause I've changed my perspective on some matter. Well, for now, I should just pray and continue to pray lo. In time, I know He'll show me the rite 1. So, to Ms-Right-of-the-future, Adrian would like to say "HIE ^..^"
Hahahaha.. Good nite, world.
Oh ya, the verse of the day is taken from Psalms 119:9&10
How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word.
I seek you with all my heart; Do not let me stray away from your commands.
Quote of the day : How am I supposed to show love to somebody over and over and over who constantly rejects me?
I am replacing Caleb with Jesus, Caleb's dad with God and her/she with Adrian.
And that answer comes from both guys and girls. Do drop ur comments k? Hehe.
I am truly blessed today. Cause I've changed my perspective on some matter. Well, for now, I should just pray and continue to pray lo. In time, I know He'll show me the rite 1. So, to Ms-Right-of-the-future, Adrian would like to say "HIE ^..^"
Hahahaha.. Good nite, world.
Oh ya, the verse of the day is taken from Psalms 119:9&10
How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word.
I seek you with all my heart; Do not let me stray away from your commands.
Quote of the day : How am I supposed to show love to somebody over and over and over who constantly rejects me?
I am replacing Caleb with Jesus, Caleb's dad with God and her/she with Adrian.
12 mentos:
i say it can go both ways. I am totally flattered if a girls out me out. So yeah if you have balls its always better if the guys go first. Cheerios beerholder.Hehehe
* i mean ask me out*
For me... It can be the guy who makes the first move or if u meet a really opposite gal, may be she will be the one who makes the first move since u chicken out. Haha. Sometimes it does happen. Generally, most of the time is the guy who makes the first move. In conclusion, it can go both ways. So guys and gals, don be afraid to show your love to someone who you 'love'.
hmmmm... opinions noted... but u see, the thing that struck me yesterday was, if a girl makes the 1st move, u surely will thing, "hey, this girl quite daring, i wonder how many other guys that she asked out before already". Judging by experience, it's scary. And I still strongly believe that the guys should make the 1st move.
When the time is right, God will help u make the 1st move. In the meantime, just pray alot lot.
Guys HAVE to make first move whether they like it onot. Girls making first move is through lots and lots of hints and normally guys are too dumb to get the hints or the hints are not obvious at all.
hello... hapi blogging... have a nice day! just visiting here....
we had a similiar question the other day, and someone said something interesting:
"sometimes girls also ask guys out wan. but then the way girls ask and the way guys ask different wan. guys will say, 'eh, let's go out'. girls will say, 'i wanna go out' then wait for the guy to ask."
ROFL.
but true. ^_^
Ya I agree. Guys suppose to ask outloud. Girls hint. That's the art of it.
saun : wow... quite pro oso hor, u nie? hahahaha... maybe, i was just dumb back then... hahaha
hapi : hello hapi.. ^^
hwei : so, in conclusion, the guys ask the girls out with the girls giving hints eh? hehehe.. point noted... ^..^
xiao mei mei : there was an art? goshhh... i think i might fail.. huuu huuuuu... luckily it's just art not a subject... haha.. point taken.
Sometimes, you'll just missed the right one. I would prefer guy doing the first move. Like what you've said, "if a girl makes the 1st move, u surely will thing, "hey, this girl quite daring, i wonder how many other guys that she asked out before already"" So, who's your target? If its the same old one who constantly rejects you, I would say "give up". Good Luck alright!
my target? hmmm... i dun take her as a target. i'm not a hunter who goes around hunting for the fun of it. i'm searching for the right 1. and i might have found her but for now, i'm just to chickened to let her know that. maybe she's the right 1. Only God knows. btw, no matter wat u say, I wun just give up. but thanx for dropping by a comment tho.
I think guys should make a move and be responsible about it. That's all. Don't fool around. That's disgusting. Same applies to girls.
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